I enjoy reading and learning about other people’s lives. Especially really successful, driven people. I want to know what they eat, how they sleep, what they do for fun, how they schedule their day, how they handle email, how they prioritize stuff, how they avoid burn out…..how do they do it??
One thing I have found that successful people have in common
is morning routines. They all start their day very intentionally with the idea
of starting off calm, focused and centered.
Most of them do some form of these
things.
Meditation
Journaling
Exercise
Most of them do NOT do these things.
Check email
Open social media
Hit the snooze button
Do work/occupation stuff
Their intentions are to spend the first part of their day
focusing on their needs and making themselves an overall better person. Most of
them emphasize this is not a long, drawn out routine. 5-10 minutes of
meditation along with 5 minutes of journaling while drinking their morning
breakfast beverage (most drink tea). And then another 5-10 minutes of
stretching, yoga or mild calisthenics. Some of them do their daily workout in
the morning, so of course, that takes longer.
Basically, one half hour to start their day on the right
foot.
By opening email and
social media first thing in the morning, you are letting other people determine
how your day starts off. And if it is work email, you are letting others
dictate your priorities for the day. These successful people choose not to let
other people’s requests/needs affect their schedule or feelings right off the
bat. Think about it. If something has happened overnight that is a true
emergency, you would already know because someone would have actually called
you.
The world won’t end if you don’t connect with the world
within 30 minutes of waking up. I
promise.
Knowing all that, let me share my routine(s).
When I was teaching my morning routine was routine, but
there was nothing calm, focused or centered about it. I got up, fixed coffee,
took a shower, made myself presentable, fixed a quick bite and drove to school.
And that was on a good morning. It didn’t happen often, but I occasionally
overslept or I couldn’t find the skirt I wanted or my hair just would not dry
or I left the house only to turn around after three miles because I left my bag
at home. Ya know, the stuff that happens to all of us.
It worked, but it didn’t necessarily start my day off in a Zen
like state. And since I was already getting up at 4:50, getting up even earlier
to do all these hippy- trippy- namaste things was just. not. happening.
Then, once I was no longer teaching and no longer having to
get up at the butt crack of dawn, I decided to do a focused morning routine. I
would get up, fix my coffee and go sit on our front porch swing. I would bring
out three books. The book I was currently reading, a copy of The Secret and my journal. I would spend a
few minutes reading and writing positive affirmations in my journal. On a super
good day I’d even do a few sun salutations!
And get this, I didn’t even bring my phone outside at all!
Then we sold our house and life got way more interesting. I
realized last week that I no longer have that morning routine and I miss it.
Currently my morning looks like this.
Get up and fix coffee. Open email and read TheSkimm and The Morning Brew while
drinking coffee. Nibble on breakfast #1. Open FB and look at notifications. If
I see something important, I’ll read that. Then I get dressed and ready for
work.
While there’s nothing terrible about that routine (and I do
learn a lot with those two emails!), it doesn’t exactly fit with what I’d like
to accomplish for myself in the mornings. As the weather gets nicer, I want to
get back into that routine of reading, being thankful and sending out positive
juju into the universe. Of course, I could totally do these things inside, but
something about being outside just makes it better!
Y’all know I’m big on goal setting, so here we go. I’m
setting a goal to get this morning routine back on track at least twice per
week. I’ve got to go dig my copy of The Secret out of storage and get my
journaling pen ready, but that part is easy. It just the part of dragging my
lazy-non-morning-person butt up and at ‘em that is hard!
What does your morning look like?
What could you do to make
it a more positive experience?
Stay Strong Y'all!
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I really enjoyed this. I too am going to set a goal to do a morning routine. A book I think you might enjoy is "The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent".
ReplyDeleteThat sounds like something I would love! Thank you for the recommendation.
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